Life has drummed into me that, for the most part, for the world in which I live, reality (the "white society" one I have to deal with most of the time, at least) is in the eye of the white beholder. So do me a solid; look at this photo and tell me something:
What do you see?
WHOM do you see? (No insults/compliments or complimentary/insulting nouns, adjectives, or adverbs allowed)
Is it really true that a white perspective delivers the most accurate meaning? Here are a few:
Some see a man looking out a window;
Some see a man behind bars;
Some see a man kneeling before the Cross;
Some see a man about to be lynched at a KKK human piñata party and barbecue;
Some see a witness to the Crucifixion;
Some see a man about to be crucified;
Some see salvation;
Some see damnation;
Some see humiliation;
Some see hopeless resignation;
Some see self-righteous pontification;
Some see righteous indignation;
Some see a window into a man's life;
Some see his eyes, "windows to his soul";
Some see a troublemaking, "uppity nigger";
Some see a "suspect who fits the description";
Some see a "perp";
Some see a threat they may have to shoot, or tase, or chokehold the life out of at the first opportunity;
Some see a bullseye;
Some see predator;
Some see prey;
Some see a martyr;
Some see a mystic;
Some see "Al";
Some see "Alfred";
Some see "Mr. Heath";
Some see "boy";
Some see "STRANGER DANGER";
Some see a powerful shout "LOOK AT ME!" "LOOK AT THIS!";
Some see a show-off;
Some see a "Victim";
Some see a "Persecutor";
Some see a "Rescuer";
Some see themselves;
Some see "other";
EVERYONE either sees a black man or a man whose (societally pigeonholed) "blackness" is invisible to them.
"Colored"? Really? But 'black' is not a color.
"Colorblind"? REALLY? Did you not hear me?? I said "'BLACK' IS NOT A COLOR."
Some see a man looking out a window.
At what?
At whom?
I am looking at the world as it is.
I am watching events unfold.
I am looking at YOU.
Oh my gosh, thank you so much for your reply at a time of bereavement.
May I say that eulogy you wrote for Brucie was divine.. You and your brother are gracious, kind hearted, talented people. Your brother has a soft handsome face, I am sure creativity dripped of his fingers. May your "See you heaven, my brother" service bring you tears of grief and tears of joy and humour.
I will do my homework.
Please know that I hope you rid yourself of that dreadful man in November. I read a cute message "During lockdown I noticed that my husband would put the microwave on for 44 seconds ONLY "
What a gem.
T
Dear mrsbmrsb,
Sorry for the delayed response, but I am in bereavement (see my most recent post), I did read your post before my brother past away and was preparing to respond, and then...
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